Yesterday I had a talk with a person I met at the bank about finding something in life that makes you happy. This person was very negative about life and was stuck on the idea that no matter how hard he tried he could never find happiness.
I tried to convince him that if you just make an effort to smile instead of frowning would certainly be a great start!
But to my despair I was being defeated by this persons loss of hope for trying to change his outlook on life.
I even tried to uplift this stranger by giving him some positive quotes like:
Life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. –Charles Swindoll
But that still seemed not to work until I just said “well you’ll never feel happy until you try” that was a quote from one of my favorite songs in my mp3 player called Happy Ft. D. Martin.
Amazingly enough at that moment a lady in back of us in the line yelled out loud and said “ALRIGHT NOW!!!”.
This was the magic moment of what is called the “ripple effect”, credit to Darren Hardy & a talk I had with John Lee Dumas for that tag line. But moving along that guy finally let out a smile then a big laugh, and I guess this was contagious because a few more of us at the bank starting smiling and laughed along with him.
Conclusion
So the moral of this story I share with you today is that “HAPPINESS IS SOMETHING THAT STARTS WITHIN YOU DECIDING THAT TODAY YOU WILL MAKE AN EFFORT TO SMILE & BE HAPPY!”.
You see he had the power the entire time just to say NO to his pain & stinking thinking and use that energy to change his entire day. So I just want to challenge you today to smile and uplift someone else who you see is down and pay it forward. So until next post I will leave you with one of my favorite videos to uplift your day C2C Happy Ft. D. Martin! Hey one more thing.. Leave me a comment and let me know what you do when you are feeling blue that makes you happy? Let’s continue this discussion in the comments section and looking forward to talking with you.
This posting will provide anyone wanting to start earning passive income as an entrepreneur the encouragement that anything is possible! Learn how someone growing up on the mean streets of Compton was able to move from becoming a successful entertainer, to becoming an entrepreneur that will soon be selling his business for 3.2 Billion Dollars!
It’s all about finding a unique need or desire in the market, and then providing that need or desire no matter what it takes—that the true soul of an entrepreneur
It’s amazing what people can do, no matter what situations they have endured.
Some believe that they can’t succeed because they:
Don’t have enough capital to start their dream
Didn’t grow up with parents that cared for them
Don’t know the right people to network with to start their business
However, this is simply not true. If you have a desire to change the world through innovation and are willing to preserver no matter how hard it may be, you can achieve whatever you put your mind to.
And that is exactly what Dr. Dre did—a man that grew up in Compton, California—an area well known for being one of the worst places in the United States for crime and violence. In fact, after Dr. Dre completed his freshman year in Compton High School, his mother quickly transferred him to another school because of the bad influence it had on his academics and life.
However, Dr. Dre never did excel in school, so not having a good education doesn’t mean you can’t become a great entrepreneur. However, Dr. Dre found a secret that helps entrepreneurs climb to new levels—and that is building relationships.
Desiring to become a successful DJ and Hip-hop artist, Dr. Dre began socializing and building relationships with individuals that could influence his ambitions. Eventually he climbed the charts, becoming a well-known hip-hop artist, especially when he partnered up with Snoop Dog and cofounded Death Row Records.
From Entertainer to Entrepreneur
In 2008, Dr. Dre cofounded Beats Electronics, LLC, which produces audio products and equipment. They currently hold the highest market share for headphones that cost over $100—with an estimated 73% of the market share. These headsets are cleverly marketed as “Beat’s by Dr. Dre,” using the entertainer’s popularity to label the product.
This is downright amazing considering someone that grew up in the toughest areas of the United States during his childhood, had divorced parents, and even had a child at the young age of 16.
Apple is Ready to Set a Deal
Apple has been highly interested in buying Beats Electronics out—and they are about to break a deal to purchase the company at an estimated 3.2 Billion! With Dr. Dre owning as much as 25% of the company, his share would be estimated at around 800 million dollars!
You Can Live Your Dream Regardless of Your Situation
Here is the real deal, becoming an entrepreneur has nothing to do about how you grew up, what kind of education you had, or whatever your current position is right now.
Remember I am from the Bronx, NY and had nothing but dreams when I was young and that has never stoped me!
If you have a dream to start your own business, then do it.
If you feel like you have a product or service you can offer, then do whatever it takes to show it to the world.
Don’t ever believe your limitations will keep you down, you can always achieve what you set your mind, heart, and soul towards.
Peter Ajello’s Story About How He Lost 200 Pounds Without Surgery
On my latest podcast I interviewed this gentleman, Peter Ajello. I have to say I was blown away with his story – a story of strength, persistence, determination, and sharing. It was a pleasure meeting him and having him on the show. I’m truly proud of what he’s done and continues to do for himself and for others. I wanted to share his story with you. It needs to be said.
So who is Peter Ajello?
Peter overcame life-threatening, morbid obesity and a near-death experience to lose 200 lbs. in 16 months! His story is uplifting and highlights a bittersweet mix of smiles and tears.
Peter lives in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida. Beaches and swim trunks aren’t the best things to show off an overweight body. Peter had been overweight all of his life. It didn’t help that his name was Ajello since that brought no end of teasing and torment from classmates and even friends. People called him a barrel of jello. Pete looks down as he talks about it even now.
The $17,000 Bet
He ultimately reached 445 pounds and wore a size 60 pants. He couldn’t get up off the couch or walk a block. He could barely get out of bed. His biggest exercise routine was to eat food faster. Then one day he got a wake up call when he suffered a minor stroke. His friends noticed a contortion in his face that scared them and him. In desperation for his life, Ajello’s friends decided to challenge him to lose weight by promising to give him $17,000 if he would lose 100 pounds in six months.
The time was right. He was motivated. He began a program of rigorous exercise and a healthy diet which included chocolate since it is known for suppressing appetite.
As the six month deadline approached his friends started getting worried that he would actually do this and they would have to pay up. They started sending him pizzas and junk food to get him to miss the target, but he was determined. At the end of six months, Peter had lost 157 pounds.
But he didn’t stop there. He continued to lose weight till he lost 200 pounds in just 16 months. His size 60 pants are now size 38. He carries his old pants around with him as a reminder of where he was and where he never wants to go again. He still has more weight loss to go, but he’s more determined than ever to overcome this last hurdle. His friends are interested in betting again – they are sure they’ll just have to pay up again.
With the end in sight, however, Peter doesn’t want to stop there. He remembers the best part of his story — the wonderful people he met along the way. He remembers how he was moved and encouraged by the flood of emails, tweets and support he received from well-wishers who were inspired by his story and sought his assistance to help them address their own weight-loss issues.
How Peter Helps Others
He has decided to dedicate his life to sharing his story and his diet strategies to encourage and help others who are struggling with life-threatening obesity and get them on the road to optimum health and wellness.
His book Mind Over Body started it all. In this book, Peter documents the whirlwind of life-altering events leading up to his morbid obesity and a diabetic stroke that left him fighting for his life. He also includes his secret to weight loss and the tips and tricks that helped him succeed in spite of obstacles and frustrations. The book is a mix of joy and frustration that make up the weight loss journey. But Peter is with you all the way to show not only the challenges but the victories as well as you seek to utilize your mind over your body and reach your goals.
The publication of Mind Over Body alerted the world to his success. His appearances on The Doctors, Dr. Oz, and the Today Show, along with NBC, Fox News, and global media outlets worldwide, spread the word even faster and sparked a flood of requests for the diet he created.
In response, he has authored another book that should be released soon, Pete’s Chocolate Diet book. The book comes with a sample of Pete’s Organic Weight-Loss Chocolates, to introduce you to them and see how they are used with his diet. This next book goes into greater detail about specifics of the diet in a way that’s easy to follow and do. In fact, Peter just learned that a study is being conducted to see if pills containing nutrients in dark chocolate can help prevent heart attack and stroke. If proven, this will be a big boost for everyone.
Finally, for those who find the process of achieving and maintaining your weight-loss goals to be difficult and frustrating, be assured that you’re not alone. In fact, nearly all dieters feel the same! For those who want an extra boost, Peter is offering personal coaching services where he can mentor you through your diet journey. Pete’s unique approach combines his personal experiences with all of the value-added guidance, recommendations and information he’s received from the doctors, dieticians, nutritionists and personal trainers during his extraordinary journey. All coaching sessions are conducted personally by Pete via telephone.
Pete’s the real deal. He has an amazing story and a heart as big as the world. He is determined, yet humble. He is willing to step out and help and encourage others. He is dedicated to making a difference in the lives of others by sharing his findings and experiences. I hope you too will get to meet him personally one day. My life won’t be the same after this interview, that’s for sure.
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